
This is the lovely Rachel. She recently appeared in a local Swiss Magazine praising Botox. Rachel is just 25 years old.
Tired at 25?
Rachel loves the Botox effect claiming it makes her eyebrows higher, opens up her face and that she is less tired looking…at twenty five. It may be a long way back for me, say twenty years, but one thing I do NOT recall about my twenties is feeling tired and more importantly looking tired. At twenty five I was working hard and playing even harder. It was a time when I went from the nightclub/lover’s bed straight to work, putting my make-up on in the car and no-one was the wiser. I had limitless reserves of energy that I took for granted. Any spare cash was spent on airtickets, weekends away, clothes and records (Hah! that’s a give-away I think the word now is CDs). Aesthetic upkeep was minimal as wearing the glow of youth there was little need for more.
My Face
I like my face, it’s the one I was given and I’m sticking with it but around my early forties I started to notice frown lines and a general overall look of tiredness that never left. I am proud of my face; my crows feet prove I laugh a lot but they do not have to start at the corner of my eye and end up at my ears, nor do I need tram lines across my brow. So I did my research and chose a well-respected cosmetic doctor who is also a surgeon and who now knows my face better than me. I am happy with the results. I still have history on my face: growing up in the drizzle of England, my years on the ski slopes; the beaches in the Middle East; my three children; my happy marriage. All come through but don’t necessarily hit anyone in the… face. (Note from Jules: I thought long and hard about writing that last paragraph but I promised an honest, candid look at women’s lives when writing this blog so I am keeping to my word).
Poison?
The dangerous part of putting Botulinum Toxin in my body does terrify me but so far there has been no scientific proof that this will kill me – any related deaths are almost always found to be caused by an underlying illness.
I’m in my mid-forties and look it. Botox helps me look the best I can – a healthy, energetic mid-forties. The lovely Rachel is twenty-five and is likely to stay that way all her life. Practitioners are now saying the earlier Botox is used the better as the stronger the muscle, the more efficient the treatment. So it is best used as a preventative measure before the wrinkle forms, and any human expression with it, I take it.
The important thing about Rachel’s age now is that this is when she says goodbye to her girlhood and we start to see the woman that she will become. There are no lines or wrinkles as yet, just a few traits of laughter, of expression, as light as the strokes of a charcoal etching. If Rachel continues to use Botox we will never know this beautiful woman, how when she smiles her eyes crinkle in the corner and when she concentrates her brow furrows just a little bit.
Copyright JulesRitter February 2008
Hi Leslie, thank you for commenting and welcome to the site, perhaps, as you work in the profession, you can reply to Liz. What you have experienced in Ireland? Would love to hear what you have to say. Jules
Dear Jules.
I am a man who loves women, beauty, elegance and decorum. And I’m seriously worried about the long-term effects of playing around with Botox as the worst has happened to someone I loved. And the really, really worst has happened to a neighbour who, after two treatments at the age of 56, spent years trying to hide one side of her face with her long hair, and has undergone three or four operations to correct the problem. I saw her recently, and the operations were not very successful. Such a pity for a beautiful, dignified woman.
The US Food and Drug Administration are seriously worried too – even though they had previously approved the drug. Botox is a poison, and if you look it up on Google every mention will tell you the same. Used to treat suffering, other than stupid vanity, many have children have died as the injected botulinum toxin takes a trip around the body and causes, amongst other illnesses, botulism.
Quote from the FDA:
“The agency warned that patients receiving a botulinum toxin injection for any reason — cosmetic or medical — should be told to seek immediate care if they suffer symptoms of botulism, including: difficulty swallowing or breathing, slurred speech, muscle weakness, or difficulty holding up their head.”
The media mad Polla’s might think it a clever marketing trick to fill their 25 year old daughter with drugs to encourage a walk-in trade from the ugly bunch. But frankly the poor kid looks like a clown. I just hope she has enough personality to get over the freakish creature she’ll become.
As for myself, well, I’m not worried, I shall wear my 60 year old wrinkles and “lived in” face with pride. And I’m so proud of my girlfriend who at 60 something is a woman of remarkable intelligence and natural beauty.
G.
I think we have to be careful to differentiate between what is factual and what is heresay. If your neighbour’s misfortune was purely due to over-use of botox then I would be surprised. Do you know for a fact that this is so? The children who died were handicapped patients who were having large amounts of Botox injected into their legs it was not a cosmetic application. Botox has been used successfully for many many years and is used to treat many kinds of ailments. To date no-one has walked out of a doctor’s office and fallen down from botulism poisoning.
It’s common sense. If you are a healthy adult and seek out a professional doctor then you are more likely to die in the car on the way to the appointment.
This is my view but I would love to hear anyone else’s. Jules
Hi Jules,
To confirm, I’ve definitely seen pix of women with half-paralyzed faces, caused by Botox that was incorrectly injected by a possibly-not-so-reliable doctor. But I have no idea what the stats are – it’s very impressive when you see pictures of, say, 3-4 women with frozen skewed faces, but out of the thousands who’ve had the shots, aren’t they the exception?
Poor Rachel, though, her face is already acquiring that shiny/waxy look of the over-botoxed… she’ll be able to play in horror movies without a mask by the time she’s 35 – not that she’ll have any expression by then!
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leslie said,
February 18, 2008 @ 3:18 pmJules, Was trawling through Botox references on the web and ended up in your site.Which is interesting ,zany funny and different.
regards Leslie, Berkeley Skin and Laser clinic, Dublin , Ireland